Problem Solving-the fun way!!

Have you ever sat in a movie theater, and several people in the row behind you are all talking? I bet you found it difficult to concentrate on the movie.

What does this have to do with your child in a Kindermusik class? Just imagine this scenario: your Kindermusik teacher brings out a basket of rhythm sticks and sings 'two for you and two for your grownup." Most of the grownups in the room start encouraging their child to go get the sticks. They encourage them with their voices and now we hear several adults telling their child to go get the sticks. At this point, some of the children will start to 'tune you out.' I have young boys and I know all about this temporary selective hearing.

Although we highly encourage you to talk to your child throughout the day and label movements, sounds, and objects to help with language acquisition, there are times when we have to allow them to figure out what to do without being told. Allow them to problem solve.

So let's try an experiment this week with our kiddos. Let's try to not give as many directions to our kids, maybe even do more singing. The toughest part will be the no talking but I'm sure we will all be curious to witness our kids in this somewhat altered environment. Guide your little one by being a model and using non-verbal cues.

Here is some of the feedback from other moms who have previously tried this:
* They show more patience
* They were more 'in the moment' with their children
* Their children were more attentive and focused
* Their children felt freer to create, explore, and express themselves.

So take time to explore with your child without giving them opinions or directions. Be a model for them through your actions and not your words. It's not easy, but it may allow you to be more 'in the moment' with your child in a new way. Then come back and share your experience with us!